How to disagree agreeably
Over 28 years of marriage Andy and I often found ourselves disagreeing on various topics in our relationship. And when we did disagree, I never liked it. However, Andy would […]
Don’t divorce just yet
Have you been tempted to give up your marriage this year? I’ve talked to many who have, so you aren’t alone. 2020 has been the year of social distancing. However, […]
The Blame Game
I just love Brene´ Brown. If you haven’t come across any of her material I want to encourage you to check her out. Her first TED Talk entitled The Power […]
Before you give up your marriage
This week, here in New Zealand, we’re celebrating a return to Level one. Apart from not leaving the country, life is permitted to return to normal. However, what if you’re […]
Before you consider Divorce
Dr John Gottman has undertaken 30 years of research studying relationships. He says, “One of the saddest reasons a marriage dies is that neither spouse recognises its value until it’s […]
How to communicate in a way that truly connects
Ever since I can remember, I’ve loved to write, to listen to stories and to capture them on paper. I lived a lot in my head, as I imagined the […]
Now’s the time to get a new relationship
You may be thinking “Did I hear you right?” Or “What planet are you on right now? We are in lockdown and you’re suggesting I get a new relationship?” Yes, […]
Our Open Door Policy for Communication
The house I grew up in had an unwritten and unspoken rule; we leave the doors open. This open-door policy was never directly enforced but our personal bedrooms were never […]
The secret to happiness
A couple of years ago there was an article in the Sunday Star Times headlined “What’s the secret to happiness ?” It caught my eye because everyone wants to know […]
Show the love this Valentine’s Day
It’s Valentine’s Day today. This morning I thought I could offer you 5 ideas to show love to your partner. I have to say that these are not all my […]